2004 was the year I got my first puppy.
2007 was the year I started the Puppy In Training blog.
Today is the first day I realized that successful puppy raisers and successful bloggers have 3 common traits. Sometimes I’m a little slow, but seriously it took 11 years to have this revelation!?! So what are those 3 traits? Well if you’ve left a comment on the blog about training your puppy sometime over the past 8 years then I may have responded by writing something along the lines of “…in order to be successful when training your puppy you need to be __________, __________, and __________”
Go ahead…search back through the archives and you will invariably come across the above statement. Or just scroll to the next paragraph…your choice…
The 3 Traits Successful Puppy Raisers And Bloggers Have In Common
Drum roll please…all successful puppy raisers and bloggers are…
1. Consistent: adjective
- always acting or behaving in the same way
- of the same quality; especially : good each time
- continuing to happen or develop in the same way
2. Persistent: adjective
- continuing to do something or to try to do something even though it is difficult or other people want you to stop
- continuing beyond the usual, expected, or normal time : not stopping or going away
3. Patient: adjective
- able to remain calm and not become annoyed when waiting for a long time or when dealing with problems or difficult people
- done in a careful way over a long period of time without hurrying
Successful Puppy Raisers Are Consistent, Persistent, And Patient
Are you thinking about getting a new puppy? If you haven’t raised or trained a puppy in the past then you should consider whether or not your have these 3 traits because if not you may be in for a world of hurt with a new puppy. Let’s take a quick look at why these traits are so important.
Consistent – Lucky for me I read several books and scoured the internet before picking up Linus from the animal shelter. I already new the importance of being consistent. Why consistent? If you are not consistent then your puppy will be confused as to what is right and wrong. For instance, lets say you are teaching your puppy his name and you expect anytime you say his name he comes back to you. If you say his name and he doesn’t return to you and you don’t do anything to enforce the command then your pup has just learned that his name doesn’t mean return to mommy (or whoever said his name).
I hear this all the time. My puppy doesn’t return to me when I say his name. I can almost guarantee the reason is you are not being consistent in enforcing the command.
Persistent – Training a puppy can be difficult. Sometimes it seems like your puppy just won’t get it. I came across the importance of persistence when I was crate training my first guide dog puppy, Stetson. Lets revisit the definition of persistent: “continuing to do something or to try to do something even though it is difficult or other people want your to stop.” The second or third definition could be “crate training Stetson.” When crate training puppies you almost always have to put up with a little bit of barking/crying/howling. Most of my pup’s would bark for 5 minutes or less than fall asleep. This would usually continue for no less than a week with most puppies.
Many would think that alone would define persistence, but lets take a look at Mr. Stetson. A short recap: Stetson basically cried for about 15 minutes in his crate while I talked him to sleep and woke up about every 2 hours crying for nearly a month. The good news was after about a month he was a perfect puppy in his crate, but it required a persistent puppy raiser to get him there.
Patient – Puppies are frustrating! Sometimes it seems like they are doing things just to test our patience. After 10+ years raising and training puppies I’ve learned that I just have to be patient and our puppy will eventually learn his lessons. Lets look at an example when your patience will be tested.
Some people seem to expect that an 8 week old puppy should already be potty trained. However, this is far from the truth. Most puppies at that age do not have full control of their bladder and will almost always have accidents at random times. For instance, puppies will often go pee at their regular potty spot and then almost as soon as they step foot in the house they squat and potty again. My answer to this craziness: At 8 weeks your puppy does not have full control of his bladder and sometimes does not know he did not get it all out. Be patient and wait a few minutes outside with your pup after he does his first tinkle there may be a second or third one coming very soon.
When potty training your puppy you need patience. It takes time for your puppy to not only physically mature, but also to understand what, where, and when he’s supposed to go.
Successful Bloggers Are Consistent, Persistent, And Patient
What about successful bloggers? Why are being consistent, persistent, and patient so important for us? Unfortunately, I’ve learned more about the importance of these traits after slacking off on my blogging over the past year or so. Here’s what I learned:
Consistent – One of the main staples of a good blogger. If you’ve read any blog about blogging, taken a course on blogging, or read any books about blogging, blog experts will all mention the importance of being consistent. Most will say that bloggers should have a schedule using either a spreadsheet or editorial calendar to schedule posts by day even going as far as having a theme for each day you blog. In the past I was very good about being a consistent blogger, but the past year or 2 or 3 I slipped off the path and unless you consider one blog post about every other month consistent then I am failing.
What happens when you’re not consistent? It’s simple, consistent bloggers have a consistent readership. As I slacked off on my consistency my readers stopped visiting, interacting, and subscribing to my blog. Why? Because they have no idea when I will post a new blog article. Even when I do post I imagine it just passes through their blog readers or email inboxes without a second look (because they likely forgot about me) and that’s if they remained subscribed to my blog.
Look no further than my email newsletters which has never been consistent. It’s a double opt-in list so all subscribers come to my site, fill out the form, then confirm their email address a second time through email. However, because I don’t send out a consistent newsletter many forget that they signed up and even get upset when I send them an email.
Persistent – “Trying to do something even though it is difficult…” I was as persistent as they come during my first 5 years of blogging. I stuck to my schedule rain or shine. I would put together a series of posts that would go live while I was on vacation in attempt to stick to the schedule. I made it a point to write (not necessarily a full blog post) every night from 10-11pm. Blogging is not always roses and rainbows. There are difficult times. You might have to write while on vacation, when you’re sick, when you’re tired, miss a dinner or party.
What happens when you’re not persistent? Simple you cannot be consistent without being persistent! Scroll back up and see what happens when you are not consistent.
Patient – Some people hear about blogging and expect traffic, fame, and riches from day 1, but when day 30, 60, 90 have hit and you’ve had only a small uptick in traffic? Many end up quitting before even starting. A successful blogger needs to be patient. I started this blog in July 2007 and it wasn’t until February 2008 that I really felt I was making some progress. Until then I was positive all the traffic was coming from my mom, girlfriend, and occasionally a few other members of the family. And why not…in the early days I emailed my mom, dad, brother, sister, and girlfriend after every post and asked them to leave a comment. 🙂 I would end up with 1-2 comments and maybe 5 visits. Back then that made me pretty happy.
What happens if you are not patient? I’ve seen it many times over. Bloggers who are not patient fail in 30 days, 6 months, or a year. They want a windfall immediately and when it doesn’t happen they quit. I feel lucky that my blog started to see an uptick after 7 months. I think I had a fast rise and that was over 8 years ago when the competition in the blogosphere was not nearly as fierce. Be patient young Padawan, blogging is a marathon not a sprint.
That’s all folks! Time for me to apply this to my every day life. I pledge to be consistent, persistent, and patient with my puppy raising and blogging.
How about you guys? What do you think are important traits for puppy raisers? bloggers? Tell us your thoughts in the comments section below.